Friday, February 11, 2011

So what's this blog gonna be about?



I've toyed with the idea of maintaining a blog for some time now. Way before this class, so in a way I'm glad to have the incentive to keep up with one. My problem was always trying to find a driving topic to write about. I would always have these ideas that sounded like a good post but when writing them up it seemed out of context, not relevant to anything I had written in the past, or anything I would likely write in the future. As a result, the length of time between postings got longer and longer, then stopped altogether. Before this class, my last post was almost a year ago.
This time around I want to have a subject that is at least semi-consistent from post to post. When brainstorming for a topic that I could really get into writing about one thing kept coming to mind -- hockey. I know, kinda lame right? That's what I kept telling myself as I searched my head for deeper, more meaningful topics, but the more I thought about the role the sport has played in my life, the more I started liking the topic. Hockey has been about the only consistent thing in my life since I was 15 years old. I have been playing for going on seven years now, coaching on and off for about five. I actually did my senior project on the sport and coached a team of eight year olds to a second place finish. I've worked at the rink for years now, doing everything from cleaning bathrooms to driving the Zamboni.
Literally all my close friends either play hockey or work at the rink. I mean every single one. Fun fact: Three of the four girls that I have ever been in long term relationships with, I met at that rink. Plus, the fourth one works there too (I just met her before that) but we're cool. Wow, got a little more personal there than I expected, but I guess I'll leave it -- I keep it real.
My parents moved to Michigan three years ago when my dad got a job managing a rink up there. Almost a year ago now, I was sitting in my apartment when my mother called to tell me my father had a heart-attack at work and was in the hospital. He was walking on the ice while one of his employees drove the Zamboni. His heart stopped and he fell face first to the ice, hitting his head. He laid on the ice, technically dead, for around five minutes. The rink's defibrillator and the quick response of the EMT's saved his life, but he remained in a drug induced coma for almost two weeks. Later the doctors told us he had a 10% chance to live.
I didn't know what to think at the time, but having not seen my family much in the last two years, I didn't have too many memories to pull from. One of the last things I did with my dad was play in a father/son game in Michigan when I visited for Christmas the year before. Thanks to Facebook, here's a picture from the game. I'm #15, Dad is #4 and my younger brother Zack is in the orange and black. We were playing against my youngest brother and the rest of his travel team. We won like 12-9 or something, owned those little kids. There's my little brother on the left. He's the one on his knees getting worked by the dynamic father-son-son offensive power line. (and I'll be sure to show him this post.)
Anyway, it's fun to joke about now because that was a year ago, my Dad is fine now and they have even moved back to Wilmington. My Dad hasn't played since then, but we do have plans to play next week, though under dark circumstances. Almost two weeks ago a 47 year-old man named Rich had a heart attack during his hockey game and died on the ice. His story is enough to fill another post (which I will likely do) but the first time my father will play since his accident will be with his kids, at the memorial game next Saturday, held to raise money for the Rich's family. Sad as it is, it almost feels like things are going full-circle.
I don't really know exactly how I feel about that, but I do know that hockey and its culture is a major part of my life, and it will always provide some topic for me to babble on about.

5 comments:

  1. What a cool story! I always find it so neat to read about things that other people are passionate about and just remember how different we all really are! Side note: Zambonis are seriously the coolest machines... I used to figure skate as a little kid before my obvious lack of coordination and proneness towards being clumsy deemed the sport an unlikely fit. Anyway... I can remember staring at the machine every week just completely fascinated by it! I love that Hockey is something that really brings your family together. That's really awesome that your siblings/Dad can share that hobby and those memories will last a lifetime! So glad your Dad is doing well now, thanks for sharing! I'll be keeping that family in mind and I'm sure your support will go a LONG way in next week's fund-raiser!!!

    ReplyDelete
  2. Great post! When something is such a big part of your life, it makes for an excellent writing topic. Hockey is obviously important to you, both physically and emotionally. It is good to have that kind of an outlet. But it is really great that your dad is doing well. I was glad to get to the end of your blog post and see good news! Anyway, enjoy the fundraiser and I look forward to reading more.

    ReplyDelete
  3. What a story. I'm from Canada (born, not raised) so I understand how hockey runs in families. My own family (mainly my grandpa, my dad and all his brothers) has a long-standing hockey rivalry with a family that we've known for several generations. I went to camp (in Canada) with a girl whose dad used to play for the Toronto Maple Leafs. Her family owns an ice rink where we all used to go to celebrate New Year's Eve.

    I still go to my uncle's and cousins' games when I'm in Toronto (every Christmas and every summer), and it's a really awesome sport to watch (as long as there's at least one fight).

    ReplyDelete
  4. I love this post! It really was an honest look into your life and I commend you for putting this particular part of your life out there for everyone to see. Moreover, I love that you have continued to play hockey. My little brother has been obsessed with it since I could remember, and he is four years younger than me. Unfortunately, we are from a small town, Randleman, NC and have lived there all of our lives. We didn't exactly grow up in a place where his love for hockey was supported or even taken seriously. You may wonder what got him into it - it was the Mighty Ducks movies - yes go ahead and laugh. But I am so proud that he stuck to his dream of playing. He is actually a decent player, and if we hadn't have grown up here in the south, I'd say he was a natural; born to play. He played on a junior level team when he was 15 and 16, although decided to not continue because he had to drive to Raleigh, two hours away, in order to go to practice three times a week. He still plays, and this sport has actually brought my dad and him closer together. When his team went to a championship in Canada, they went together and explored places like the Hockey Hall of Fame, and got to celebrate together after the tournament.

    I suppose I should stop telling you about my little brother, since this blog is about you, but I wanted to make clear that I cannot agree with you more when you say that hockey brings people together; especially a father and son.

    ReplyDelete
  5. Finally, some sincerity which has been lacking in our blog posts! Chris, your story has obviously contributed more than you intended, and that's a good thing. From reading other people's comments, they agree with the message you've placed in writing. Glad that you found a topic worth sharing. It is good to reveal personal anecdotes; they lend human characteristics to a rather impersonal format. Especially since the scare you and your family experienced has passed.
    I hope you and your family are able to catch up on the lost time since you've been away at school. Having them close-by will make things easier. And keep up the solid posts.

    ReplyDelete